53 | Autism Parenting, Acceptance & Fatherhood | Dr. Jonathan Chism
Parenting an autistic child often begins with uncertainty. Many families enter the journey with questions about the future, worries about development, and hopes that the path ahead will become clearer with time.
In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene speaks with Dr. Jonathan Chism, also known as Dr. Chiz. Dr. Chism is a professor, minister, father, and co-founder of the Autism Dad Social Club, a community created to support fathers raising autistic children.
Dr. Chism shares his personal journey raising his non-speaking autistic son, Jay. From the early days of diagnosis and denial to discovering a deeper understanding of autism through autistic voices and lived experience, this conversation highlights how parenting can evolve into a journey of connection, empathy, and growth.
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Memorable Quote
"Be patient with yourself. Your child is a gift, and this journey will create a new normal."
— Dr. Jonathan Chism
In This Episode We Discuss
• The early experience of receiving an autism diagnosis
• Parenting a non-speaking autistic child
• Learning from autistic voices and lived experience
• Using AAC communication tools to support expression
• Building strong relationships between parents and children
• Encouraging independence and life skills
• Creating community through the Autism Dad Social Club
Key Themes From the Conversation
Shifting From Fear to Understanding
Like many parents, Dr. Chism initially experienced shock and denial when his son was diagnosed with autism. Over time, learning from autistic individuals and reading books such as Uniquely Human helped him see autism from a different perspective.
Connection Over Correction
Instead of focusing on changing behaviors, Dr. Chism learned the importance of connecting with his son through play, shared sensory experiences, and everyday moments. These interactions helped strengthen their relationship and build trust.
Communication Can Take Many Forms
The conversation highlights how AAC communication tools can support non-speaking autistic individuals. These tools allow children to express needs, preferences, and ideas in ways that support meaningful communication.
Parent Growth Is Part of the Journey
Raising an autistic child often transforms parents as well. Dr. Chism shares how his son has deepened his empathy and understanding of disability, inclusion, and community.
Common Questions Parents Ask
How do parents move from denial to acceptance after an autism diagnosis?
Many parents experience emotional stages after a diagnosis. Learning about autism, hearing autistic perspectives, and connecting with supportive communities can help parents gradually build understanding and acceptance.
Can non-speaking autistic children still communicate effectively?
Yes. Many non-speaking autistic individuals communicate through AAC devices, gestures, or other forms of expression. With the right supports, communication can grow and expand over time.
How can parents strengthen their relationship with their autistic child?
Connection often grows through shared activities, patience, and respecting a child’s unique communication style. Meeting children where they are and following their interests can help build trust and closeness.
Why This Conversation Matters for Families
Early in the autism journey, many parents feel pressure to solve everything quickly. This conversation offers a different perspective. Parenting an autistic child is not about having every answer immediately. It is about learning, adapting, and growing alongside your child.
Dr. Chism’s story reminds families that their children are not problems to fix but individuals with their own strengths, personalities, and potential.
Resources Mentioned
• Autism Dad Social Club
• Uniquely Human by Dr. Barry Prizant
• AAC communication tools such as TouchChat
About the Guest
Dr. Jonathan Chism is an associate professor of history at the University of Houston Downtown, an ordained minister, and co-founder of the Autism Dad Social Club. As a father raising a non-speaking autistic son, he is passionate about supporting fathers, promoting autism acceptance, and creating inclusive communities for families.
Related Resources for Parents
If you found this episode helpful, you may also enjoy these resources:
• Just Diagnosed? A Guide for Arizona Parents Starting the Autism Journey
• Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy: Supporting Your Child’s Unique Strengths
• Positive Behavior Strategies for Neurodivergent Children at Home and School
• Caring for the Caregiver: Self-Care Tips for Parents of Kids with Special Needs
Explore more parent resources at:
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