Your Child Is Not Broken—You're Just Seeing Them Through the Wrong Lens
Imagine being the last generation of parents who feel afraid, confused, or overwhelmed after an autism diagnosis. That’s exactly what today’s guest, Megan Ashley, is working toward—and her message is one every parent needs to hear.
In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, we had an honest, encouraging conversation about how to better understand and support your autistic child with compassion, clarity, and confidence.
Why This Matters:
Too many parents are handed a diagnosis and left wondering: Now what?
Megan, an autistic therapist and parent advocate, gives us the tools to answer that question—with empathy, not fear.
“Your version of ‘okay’ and their version of ‘okay’ might be different. And that’s okay.”
💡 What You'll Learn:
🌍 1. Autism Is a Culture
Autism isn’t just a condition—it’s a way of experiencing the world. Understanding autism culture means respecting how your child communicates, feels, and relates to others. It’s the first step to real connection.
👂 2. Sensory Is King
Sensory struggles are not drama. They are real, valid, and often the earliest signs of autism. Learn how to spot them—and support your child’s comfort and calm.
😷 3. Masking Isn’t “Faking”—It’s Survival
Many autistic people (especially girls and women) mask their traits to fit in. Understanding this can help you be a safe space where your child doesn’t have to hide who they are.
🔁 4. Remove the Bias, Not the Behavior
Before reacting to a behavior, pause. Are they trying to be difficult—or are they trying to feel okay? A simple shift in perspective changes everything.
🧩 Want to Raise Your Child with More Confidence and Less Confusion?
You don’t need to figure this out alone. At Pure Hearts Therapy, we support families like yours in building stronger, calmer, more connected relationships with their neurodivergent children.
✨ Whether it’s therapy, coaching, or parent support—we’re here to help you thrive.
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💬 Final Thought:
You are not failing your child—you may just be misunderstanding their signals. When we shift how we define “okay,” we open the door to deeper connection, calmer days, and more joyful parenting.
Let’s build that future—together.
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